4 Different Births at Birth and Ladies Clinic Sola

Some of you may already be familiar with Birth & Ladies Clinic Sola – from previous posts I have made about the clinic or from me mentioning it in meetings. It’s no secret that it’s one of my favourite birth facilities here. And what better day to write again about it than Mother’s Day!

As a very quick rundown of Birth & Ladies Clinic Sola, it’s an interesting concept: it has a doctor for prenatal visits but operates as a midwife-only facility for birth (so it’s very woman-centered, flexible and freestyle). They allow full birth support with me as a doula, with husbands/partners, visiting family, other children. They also have water birth as an option (almost all my clients have had a water birth there). They also allow visitation afterwards, including allowing the husband to stay overnight if desired.

It’s approximately halfway between Tokyo and Yokohama (the closest station is Kita-Yamata on the Green Line). It’s been open for 4 years and has built up a great reputation for itself, especially during the pandemic where they never put restrictions in place. The doctor can speak English and there are a couple of midwives with some English, but for those that have me as a doula it’s not an issue anyway.

For those who want a natural birth experience and full support with no limitations, I highly suggest checking out this clinic! I can come to prenatal appointments with you, too, if you need.

Here is the English page of their website: https://www.solaclinic.jp/1696-2

Now, onto some recent births there….

I’ve been meaning to write up about a few more births I attended there over the past few months. They were in September 2021, October 2021, December 2021, and January 2022! 2 were very quick births and 2 were longer.

September 2021: My client was expecting her 1st baby. At her original hospital (in Minato Mirai) in Yokohama, her parter was not allowed to attend. She had been hoping that they’d make an exception/become more flexible…but they didn’t and the closer it go to birth, the more she started to not like idea of giving birth alone without her husband or me present. I suggested Birth and Ladies Clinic Sola to her in her 3rd trimester and she was (fortunately) able to make the switch.

Fast forward to her labour. The previous day, she’d had a check-up which showed her cervix was soft but no dilation yet. But then later that night (just after midnight), I got a message to say she was having contractions but wasn’t sure if it was Braxton Hicks or real yet. 30 minutes later it became obvious that it was the real thing and they contacted Sola and were on their way, as was I. And then an hour after that, baby was born! Her waters had broken just as she arrived at the clinic, they managed to just get her into the bath for a water birth, and then out came baby. A very fast first birth experience!

October 2021: For this client, it was baby number 5 but her first baby in Japan. They chose Sola due to the location which was close to where they live. She never had long labours (3 hours or less was common for her), so she didn’t want to go far for birth. Sola was the perfect fit as it suited her with their birth philosophy, too.

A day before her due date, her labour started in the middle of the night. She went to the clinic straight away (after her neighbor came to help with her other children) given her history of fast births and I also headed out to Sola as well. She arrived at around 3am and I arrived before 3:30am. When I got there, she was relaxed, breathing deeply and was focused during contractions but coping just fine – it wasn’t “so strong”. She had IV antibiotics due to being GBS positive (pretty common) and tried to use the active chair to rest on. A little after 4am she wanted to use the toilet (no bottom pressure yet) and a few minutes later we heard “Baby is coming!”. We all rushed in, the midwives got into position to help catch, and out slid baby as she was hovering over the toilet – honestly, the toilet is an excellent tool to use in labour to help with progress!

December 2021: For this client, it was her first baby. She had contacted me early in her pregnancy about using my Doula support and wanted some suggestions on birth facilities that supported her desire for a natural, unmedicated birth with full support and visitation allowed for partners. Sola was again the perfect fit.

My client had a much longer labour than the 2 described above – certainly a labour that was a lot more typical for a first birth that took place over 2 days. Her water started leaking in the early hours of the morning of Dec 13th with some mild contractions. Sola was fine for her to wait at home and come in later that morning, which they did.

They went in at about 7am and she was 3cm dilated. I arrived shortly after. Contractions were not so strong, so Sola suggested she could actually go home if she wanted to. We all stayed a bit, went out for a walk outside the clinic (Sola allows that) and then in the early afternoon nothing significant had changed, so my client decided to go back home for a change of scenery and a rest.

Later in the afternoon, while she was at home and after a bath, her contractions started to get stronger and closer, so she decided to go back to the clinic. I joined then again. At this point, she was 4cm which was great to hear and what I was personally hoping for. From this point on, she continued to labour through the evening, through the night, and into the morning of the 14th. Eventually, just before 8am, she gave birth – again a water birth.

My one overriding image of this particular client in labour is how calm, quiet and still she kept, even when things were getting stronger. She never made a sound, maintained deep breathing throughout, and was very much “in her zone”. So much so, in fact, that we didn’t talk to her or touch her as she really didn’t want anything to disturb her. Sometimes in labour, just being there is enough even if there is no physical or practical help – everyone’s needs will be different.

January 2022: It was also this client’s first baby. We initially connected earlier in 2021 when she was newly pregnant. I did a session with her and her partner on birth facilities – going through various options, leading them to eventually decide that Birth & Ladies Clinic Sola was the place for them. After that session, they decided to hire me as a Doula for the rest of their pregnancy, birth & post-partum.

Hers was another 2 day labour. Contractions had started after midnight in the early hours of the morning on January 26th. By 11am, my client decided she wanted to go to the clinic and I also made my way over. At this point, she was 4-5cm dilated which was good to hear. By 2pm she was at 7-8cm, and then by 3:30pm she was 9cm. I remember saying “You’ll have a baby by dinner time!”. The urge to push was strong and she was fully dilated at 5pm. The midwives had allowed her into the bath in the afternoon for her water birth (as we all thought baby was on the way) but even though she was 10cm, it started to become clear that pushing would take some time. We didn’t expect quite how much time it would actually be…

Well, for the rest of the evening of the 26th and into the early hours of the 27th, my client tried everything – different positions on and off the bed, walking around, sitting on the toilet, using the active chair and so on. The midwives did occasional monitoring with the doppler every so often to make sure baby was doing well (she was!) and continued to let things go naturally.

By 12pm of the 27th, things were still no different – strong pushing contractions, but no change in baby coming further down, so it was decided to do a bit of pitocin (they are able to offer this once the upstairs doctor is on duty). That was all the boost my client’s body needed and immediately baby was on the move (we could literally see baby’s head coming lower with the pushes now). Baby was born 2 hours later, and it was another water birth! Yes, that’s right, even with the pitocin IV they still allowed her to go back in the bath for the water birth.

For sure, based on my own experiences as a doula, this was the longest pushing phase any of my clients have ever experienced. Literally around 20-21 hours of actual pushing. In any other hospital, this would have been sped up a lot – with other interventions potentially being used. As it was, whilst it may seem like it took a long time (which it did), the clinic didn’t apply a one-policy-fits-all approach and decided to do what was the best for my client and her baby – letting things go naturally as long as possible as there was nothing wrong.

I hope you enjoyed these different write-ups of births at Sola! I tried to be relatively concise because otherwise I could write for days and days!

You can see previous posts here:

https://tokyodoulasupport.wordpress.com/2021/06/20/having-a-baby-at-birth-ladies-clinic-sola/

https://tokyodoulasupport.wordpress.com/2021/07/26/testimonial-a-birth-at-birth-ladies-clinic-sola/

May 2022 Zoom Doula Cafe

The May Doula Cafe on Zoom will be on Saturday, May 7th, at 5pm!

Partners are also welcome to attend this Doula Cafe!

In this Doula Cafe, we’ll talk about common questions or worries women and their partners have once baby is here, along with the usual hospital questions around current restrictions and what options you have…as well as what my doula support looks like to get you through. It’s also a chance for everyone to ask any other questions they have about pregnancy, about labour, and about life with a baby in Japan.

These Doula Cafes are also great if anyone is interested in finding out about my work as a doula, how I work and how I can support you through pregnancy, labour and the post-partum period, I’m always very happy to talk about that, too.

For those who are interested in a full birth support package (from pregnancy through to post-partum), I am full from now to August. If you urgently need my support, please contact me to see what can be worked out. I can take more package clients whose due dates are from September onwards (although September is almost full and I can only take 1 more client who is due that month). Please get in touch for an introductory call.

For private birth preparation classes (in person or online), I have 1 space remaining this month and 2 spaces for June.

For other consultations and support, please get in touch, too (hospital/birth plan consultations, breastfeeding, post-partum support and so on).

If you’d like to join the Doula Cafe, please email me here and I’ll send you the link!  Grab yourself a drink of choice, relax in the comfort of your own home, and let’s talk! 

These Doula Cafe meetings are FREE and something I enjoy doing very much.  I am keeping an online option each month but will also have an in-person meeting, too. Stay tuned for details of the May in-person meeting.

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April 2022 Zoom Doula Cafe

The April Doula Cafe on Zoom will be on Saturday, April 9th, at 9:30am!

Partners are also welcome to attend this Doula Cafe!

In this Doula Cafe, we’ll talk about labour – the process and any fears you may have around it, along with the usual hospital questions around current restrictions and what options you have…as well as what my doula support looks like to get you through. It’s also a chance for everyone to ask any other questions they have about pregnancy, about labour, and about life with a baby in Japan.

These Doula Cafes are also great if anyone is interested in finding out about my work as a doula, how I work and how I can support you through pregnancy, labour and the post-partum period, I’m always very happy to talk about that, too. For those who are interested in a birth support package, I am almost full between now and July (1-2 more package clients only). And From September I have more availabilty!

For private birth preparation classes (in person or online), I have some space this month.

For other consultations and support, please get in touch, too (hospital/birth plan consultations, breastfeeding, post partum support and so on).

If you’d like to join, please email me here and I’ll send you the link!  Grab yourself a drink of choice, relax in the comfort of your own home, and let’s talk! 

These Doula Cafe meetings are FREE and something I enjoy doing very much.  I am keeping an online option each month but will also have an in-person meeting, too. Stay tuned for details of the February in-person meeting.

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February 2022 Zoom Doula Cafe

The February Doula Cafe on Zoom will be on Saturday, February 5th at 9:30am!

Partners are also welcome to attend this Doula Cafe!

In this Doula Cafe, we’ll talk about upadted hospital restrictions with Omicron – what to expect, questions and anxieties about all that, what your options are with other facilities (yes, there are options) and what my doula support looks like to get you through. It’s also a chance for everyone to ask any other questions they have about pregnancy, about labour, and about life with a baby in Japan.

These Doula Cafes are also great if anyone is interested in finding out about my work as a doula, how I work and how I can support you through pregnancy, labour and the post-partum period, I’m always very happy to talk about that, too. For those who are interested in a birth support package, I am almost full between Jan-April and can only take 1 more package client, so please get in touch asap! For May-July, I can take 3 more clients. And From September I am very open!

For private birth preparation classes (in person or online), I have limited space this month. There is availability in the 2 new Zoom group Birth Preparation sessions (2.5hrs) on Feb 6th – one at 9:30am for Aiiku hospital, and one at 4pm for those at other facilities. Please see here.

For other consultations and support, please get in touch, too (hospital/birth plan consultations, breastfeeding, post partum support and so on).

If you’d like to join, please email me here and I’ll send you the link!  Grab yourself a drink of choice, relax in the comfort of your own home, and let’s talk! 

These Doula Cafe meetings are FREE and something I enjoy doing very much.  I am keeping an online option each month but will also have an in-person meeting, too. Stay tuned for details of the February in-person meeting.

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January 2022 Zoom Doula Cafe

The January Doula Cafe on Zoom will be on Sunday, January 9th at 5:30pm!

Partners are also welcome to attend this Doula Cafe!

In this Doula Cafe, we’ll talk about your hospitals – what to expect, current rules/restrictions, and what doula support looks like. It’s also a chance for everyone to ask any questions they have about pregnancy, about labour, and about life with a baby in Japan.

These Doula Cafes are also great if anyone is interested in finding out about my work as a doula, how I work and how I can support you through pregnancy, labour and the post-partum period, I’m always very happy to talk about that, too. For those who are interested in a birth support package, I am almost full between Jan-April and can only take 1 more package client, so please get in touch asap! For May-July, I can take 3 more clients. And From September I am very open!

For private birth preparation classes, I only have one spot this month (January). There is also just 1 space left in the January 23rd Aiiku Birth Skills class and the February 6th Birthing with Confidence Group class, both at 3:30-6:30pm in Azabu.

For other consultations and support, please get in touch, too (hospital/birth plan consultations, breastfeeding, post partum support and so on).

If you’d like to join, please email me here and I’ll send you the link!  Grab yourself a drink of choice, relax in the comfort of your own home, and let’s talk! 

These Doula Cafe meetings are FREE and something I enjoy doing very much.  I am keeping an online option each month but will also have an in-person meeting, too. Stay tuned for details of the January in-person meeting.

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December 2021 Zoom Doula Cafe

The December Doula Cafe on Zoom will be on Sunday, December 5th at 10am!

Partners are also welcome to attend this Doula Cafe!

In this Doula Cafe, we’ll talk a bit more about post-partum life – what to expect and support options availabe. It’s also a chance for everyone to ask any questions they have about pregnancy, about your hospital/clinic here and policies/rules/restrictions, about labour, about life with a baby in Japan.

These Doula Cafes are also great if anyone is interested in finding out about my work as a doula, how I work and how I can support you through pregnancy, labour and the post-partum period, I’m always very happy to talk about that, too. For those who are interested in a birth support package, I am getting full between Jan-April and can only take 1-2 more package clients, so please get in touch asap!

For private birth preparation classes, I only have one more spot left between now and Dec 24th (I’ll be taking some time off after that until after the New Year holidays). There is space left in the Dec 19th Birthing with Confidence Group class 3:30-6:30pm. The Aiiku Birth Skills class on the 5th is currently full.

For other consultations and support, please get in touch, too (hospital/birth plan consultations, breastfeeding, post partum support and so on).

If you’d like to join, please email me here and I’ll send you the link!  Grab yourself a drink of choice, relax in the comfort of your own home, and let’s talk! 

These Doula Cafe meetings are FREE and something I enjoy doing very much.  I am keeping an online option each month but will also have an in-person meeting, too. Stay tuned for details of the December in-person meeting.

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November 2021 Zoom Doula Cafe

The October Doula Cafe on Zoom will be on Saturday, November 6th at 5pm!

Partners are also welcome to attend this Doula Cafe!

In this Doula Cafe, we’re coming back around to the popular topic of the “hospital bag” – what to pack according to hospital lists, plus additional useful items. It’s also a chance for everyone to ask any questions they have about pregnancy, about your hospital/clinic here and policies/rules/restrictions, about labour, about life with a baby in Japan.

These Doula Cafes are also great if anyone is interested in finding out about my work as a doula, how I work and how I can support you through pregnancy, labour and the post-partum period, I’m always very happy to talk about that, too. For those who are interested in a birth support package, I can take 1 more full birth package client until December (I’ll be taking some time off over Christmas/New Year), so please get in touch asap! There is more availability from next year and I’m already accepting clients.

If you’d like to join, please email me here and I’ll send you the link!  Grab yourself a drink of choice, relax in the comfort of your own home, and let’s talk! 

These Doula Cafe meetings are FREE and something I enjoy doing very much.  I am keeping an online option each month but will also have an in-person meeting, too. Stay tuned for details of the October in-person meeting.

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October 2021 Zoom Doula Cafe

The October Doula Cafe on Zoom will be on Saturday, October 9th at 5pm!

Partners are also welcome to attend this Doula Cafe!

In this Doula Cafe, we’ll talk about birth interventions like episiotomies (useful questions to ask your doctor/hospital, what to expect at your hospital) and how to advocate. It’s also a chance for everyone to ask any questions they have about pregnancy, about your hospital/clinic here and policies/rules/restrictions, about labour, about life with a baby in Japan.

These Doula Cafes are also great if anyone is interested in finding out about my work as a doula, how I work and how I can support you through pregnancy, labour and the post-partum period, I’m always very happy to talk about that, too. For those who are interested in a birth support package, I can take 1 more full birth package client until December (I’ll be taking some time off over Christmas/New Year), so please get in touch asap! There is more availability from next year and I’m already accepting clients.

If you’d like to join, please email me here and I’ll send you the link!  Grab yourself a drink of choice, relax in the comfort of your own home, and let’s talk! 

These Doula Cafe meetings are FREE and something I enjoy doing very much.  I am keeping an online option each month but will also have an in-person meeting, too. Stay tuned for details of the October in-person meeting.

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2021 First 6 months Summary

It really feels like the New Year happened only a few weeks ago, yet here we are at the start of July with half of 2021 behind us! I say it very time, but how fast is this year going?

I hope January-June has treated everyone well even though things have remained quite stressful/frustrating/depressing/upsetting/annoying (choose your adjective!) because of the pandemic. I can understand all these feelings but I’m grateful my work has given me real joy despite the negatives we’ve all been living through.

I’ve had a a busy few months. I’ve held so many different classes and sessions to help prepare couples for birth and baby, had many different consults (from birth plans, to hospital options, to post-partum and breastfeeding support), and supported 25 couples with their labours – mostly virtual due to coronavirus restrictions in hospitals but also a few in-person labours which were wonderful!

For the next half of the year, I also have another 20 couples who I’ll be supporting in their labours, along with the pre-natal support, preparation and post-partum support that comes along with it. And of course I’ll be continuing my usual classes, consults and support sessions (Doula Cafe and Baby Cafe).

I’ll be reducing my schedule for the summer (July/August) as I take a little break and hang out with my kids but I’ll keep some services and options going. As my schedule will be limited, if anyone would like a consult or birth preparation please get in touch soon. I’ll be posting up my July schedule very soon.

After summer, I’ll be back full force and also have a series of new classes, workshops and sessions planned for which I’m excited about (so watch this space).

I’ll also try and work on some more useful blog posts and information for everyone during the summer, too. If there’s anything you’d like me to write about, let me know!

Remember, as well as here, you can also find me on my groups Tokyo Pregnancy Group & Tokyo Mothers Group, my Tokyo Doula Support FB page, and my Instagram @steph_tokyodoula

Here are a few highlights from the past 6 months that I hope you enjoy!

My January 2021 so far and February Availability!

How has everyone’s January been so far? It’s been a surprisingly fast month for me – I usually find January is a bit of a slow month, but this year it’s flown by.

One of my Birth Doula clients due in February actually had her baby early (by a week and a half) and my next February client isn’t due until the end of the month, so my February schedule is now quieter – except for my current preparation work and post-partum/breastfeeding visits with existing clients. So it’s the perfect opportunity for anyone who’d like to work with me with any of the various classes or consultations I do. Or if anyone would like to use me a doula for the labours, too, in February (March and April are busier months, as is always the case each year). In February, I can work with with up to 3 more women/couples!

So, please feel free to get in touch if you’d like to work with me privately for:

Birth doula packages (encompassing prenatal, labour and post-partum support)

Birthing with Confidence Birth preparation class

Birth plan consultations

Post-partum support (package options are available for this – see here)

Breastfeeding help/consulations

…and more!

There are virtual and in-person options for everything!

I always welcome questions, so please don’t hesitate to ask if you’d like to know more 🙂